Author’s Note: This guest post is written by Mark Denison, a former minister who left the pastorate due to a sexual addiction. He and his wife Beth founded THERE’S STILL HOPE, a ministry that helps men and their wives find recovery and restoration from sexual sin. Meet Mark and Beth and hear their story by clicking here.
WE COULD FIX THE PORN PROBLEM IN 30 DAYS
Okay, that might be a bit of an overreach. But I’m on the right track. While we can never wipe out 100% of pornography, we can eliminate 90% of it in 30 days. “How can we do that?” you ask.
Simple answer – make pornography illegal.
Before you start screaming, “That’s impossible!” or “Prohibition didn’t work!” hear me out.
Playboy magazine debuted in 1953, with a picture of Marilyn Monroe on the first cover. At its peak, Playboy boasted a readership of 7.2 million people (1972). By 2020, its circulation had declined by 97%, and on March 17, 2020, the most successful pornographic magazine of all time printed its final edition.
What happened?
In a word, the Internet.
If you skip over the following data, just let this one statistic sink in. Every 90 minutes, more people go to just one porn site than the entire Playboy circulation on its best year.
Pornography is everywhere
From Fight the New Drug:
- One site has 80,032 visits per minute (4.8 million per hour).
- The average person in the world visits this site 7 times per year.
- In 2017, one porn site had 28.5 billion visits; in 2022 that number was 42 billion.
- In 2018, this same site had 109,012,068,000 videos downloaded, up 110% in 2 years.
- Every minute, 2.4 million people are on the top three porn sites.
From Barna Institute and Covenant Eyes
- There are 42 million porn sites.
- These sites contain 370 million pages of porn.
- Porn industry annual revenue tops the NFL, NBA, and MLB combined.
- Porn industry annual revenue tops CBS, NBC, and ABC combined.
- 64% of American men view porn weekly; 62% of Christian men view porn weekly.
- 37% of pastors view porn regularly.
Let me state the problem another way. For every person who read Playboy on its most popular year, 210,000 people went to just one of the 42 million porn sites.
In other words, porn is no longer discovered in Dad’s closet. The problem is the Internet. That leads me to two basic premises of this article.
- If we make it harder to get porn, fewer people will use porn.
- If we eliminate Internet porn, it will be harder to get porn.
Three Reasons Porn Should Be Banned
Porn is a form of prostitution.
Prostitution is legal in just one U.S. state. Pornography is legal in all 50. Here’s the difference. If a man pays a woman for sex in the privacy of his home or business, he has broken the law. But if a man pays a woman for sex in front of a camera, then uploads it to be viewed by one million porn users, it is completely legal. Hence, prostitution is made legal by the use of a camera. Which should be illegal? The only logical responses are (a) either, or (b) neither. They should both be legal (bad idea) or they should both be illegal (good idea).
Porn leads to violence.
Not all porn users are sex offenders, but all sex offenders are porn users. Because sexual addiction is progressive, no one ever stops at “a little porn.” It escalates. That is why 60 percent of heterosexual sex addicts eventually cross the gender line. And that is why millions of “normal” porn users move into child porn, violent porn, and other deviant types of pornography. In a 2022 article, Fight the New Drug cites five separate studies that confirm the link from porn use to violent sexual activity. They summarize, “Porn normalizes violence against women by packaging it as entertainment. Porn has been shown to eroticize the very acts of violence women have been victimized by.”
Porn victimizes children.
Our most recent research confirms that, on average, children begin viewing porn at the age of 11. Their brains are not equipped to process pornographic images. In my practice, I have found that this is the single most common traumatic event in the background of sex addicts. Among addicts, early age porn exposure is more common than parental neglect, physical abuse, or sexual abuse. The psychological effects of porn on a child are devastating. And as long as Internet porn is legal, this problem will only get worse.
Would Prohibition of Porn Really Work?
The short answer is, “Yes!” Our governments ban things all the time. And while it is true that “underground” pornography will always be a threat, by making it less mainstream and legally available, we can mitigate the damage.
I saw a study that said 2 a.m. is the most common hour to view porn. Why is this? Guy goes to bed at 10 pm. Guy goes to sleep at 10:30. Guy wakes up at 2 am, tosses and turns, then grabs his phone. Two minutes later, he’s looking at porn. Why? Because it is (a) accessible, and (b) easy.
Let me make my case another way. Five out of eight men in church on any given Sunday viewed porn in the previous seven days. How many of those same guys would have looked up porn if they knew it was illegal? If it was not so easily accessible? Not as many.
There is already a proven case for making Internet porn use illegal. Child porn use is illegal, and it is monitored by authorities. I know several men who are in federal prison today because they viewed child porn in the privacy of their homes. According to the United States Sentencing Commission, 99.1 percent of those caught with child porn were sentenced to prison, for an average length of 105 months (8.75 years). As a result, while porn use is exploding, the number of convicted child porn uses has actually declined since 2014.
Laws Matter
By banning pornography from the Internet, accompanied with huge fines and prison sentences for those who continue to post pornographic material, porn use will only go down.
Those of us living in America have seen the government ban a lot of things in our lifetimes. In some places, it is illegal to fish while driving across a bridge. In other places you can’t ride a skateboard without a license, fall asleep under a hair dryer, or break more than three dishes per day. It is illegal to kill Bigfoot. In California, you can’t eat a frog that died during a long-jumping contest. Since 1990, it has been illegal to harm a northern spotted owl.
Summary – One would think that the greatest nation on earth would values her children more than her spotted owls.
Arguments Against Banning Porn
We can’t impose our morality on others.
We hear this a lot. And I actually agree with the premise. We can’t impose our morality on others. But this doesn’t apply here, because the Internet porn pandemic is much more than a moral issue. It is a safety issue. Where do you think porn sites get their images? While some images are now manufactured, millions of images feature the bodies of children. Millions of other images are those of young women who are the victims of sex trafficking. The issue is one of safety, not just morality.
Porn laws are unenforceable.
Tell that to my friend who is serving 15 years in federal prison, because he downloaded child porn images one time. Tell that to the 27-year-old man whose mother called me. He will be in prison until the age of 85. The same authorities who monitor and enforce child porn laws (with positive results) can do the same with adult porn.
Porn is protected by the First Amendment.
It’s not. Miller v. California (1973) ruled that obscenity is not protected speech, and that it can be censored. Federal law already prohibits the distribution of obscene material, but this is rarely enforced. Just as you can’t scream “Fire!” in a crowded movie theater, the distribution of porn is not a protected expression.
We can’t eliminate porn.
But we can limit its spread.
Can we hope to completely eradicate Internet pornography? Maybe not. I get that. Speed limit laws have not eliminated speeding, and drug laws have not eliminated all drugs. But if the government actually took this horrific plight seriously, they could go a long way toward protecting the next generation from the dangers of pornography. We could make a huge difference in just 30 days. The fact that this hasn’t already been tried, in a civilized society, is beyond explanation.
David Murrow, The Online Preaching Coach, is the author of Why Men Hate Going to Church and many other bestselling books. David is an award winning television producer whose work has been seen on ABC, NBC, PBS, CBS, Discovery Networks, BBC World Service and dozens more. He trains pastors how to make their sermons more watchable, memorable and shareable online.





Why can’t ALL porn sites be dismantled and prevented from functioning?
Because it will not go away like that especially with off shore servers and small hosting providers. It’s also a worldwide thing too and VPNs will stay, so screw all that
100% logical and useful. We need to make this change. There is a major barrier, which is the dirty money and business associated with porn, but we have to do something about it.
The internet isn’t just for the US, and unlike China, the US government does not operate a firewall (and you wouldn’t like the increase in the deficit if they tried). VPN allows anyone to get on their computer and have it look like they are somewhere else. Through this, you can play online lotteries in other states, watch out of market sports, and go to internet sites banned in the US. In order to ban internet porn effectively, you would have to ban it throughout the world.
Like drugs and prostitution, the best solution is convincing people not to make use of those things.
Porn is something so bad that I want to give up everything in my life to just get rid of it now…. anyone who is still in early stages … For the sake of God leave it you will regret it 🙏😭
God you are a bunch of idiots if we ban porn the economy will get hit hard and thousands of people will lose their jobs
All you people always think about is the economy.What about having some moral values
It’s destroying families. It’s disgusting. Our kids are getting a false reality and getting addicted. The people doing the porn turn to drugs and alcohol addiction. It should all be banned
Porn absolutely needs to be banned. It is violence against women, girls, and children. It is a misogynistic, racist, hateful, violent, and disgusting industry. Men need to be held accountable for their vile actions and behaviour.
what about men?
Ultra yikes take. I don’t think there are many more ideas that would be more disastrous.
The World had always Love Sin because, (The God of this world hath blinded their eyes).
Pornography does’nt leave a good work in us, rather it has the power to destroy, influence our good behaviors collectively or individually, and put its victim in a trauma, being that it weaken the self control learnt as good moral among fellows in the world today. Hereby fighting against the manifestation of Sons of God all over the world today.
This hath pointed one thing clear; The Enemy is isn’t far away, nor what we seem to hate but rather what we love, and it keeps getting closer to us (though one may be unaware), this is a call for you to become wise. don’t let thought control you rather you control your thought, for out of it the issue of life spring forth.
Thank you for your attention: Pay more attention to God’s Word, for it is the way out in this case.
because
Attention (in God’s word) brings us to Meditation
Meditation (in God’s word) brings about Revelation
Revelation (from God’s word) produces Faith
Faith (in God) Create Relationship
Relationship (with God) retains & Sustains us in His (GOD’S) Family
(Jesus Loves You) and so do I
No need to have government involvement if it is a sin and you know not to sin then you shouldn’t go on a porn website and sin we are all sinners and should all realize all sins are equally bad so me smoking cigarettes knowing it harms my body is a sin as bad as a porn addiction
Wow! This was so….. truly American. I’m American, too, but really.. what a typical uneducated, unreasonable, un-solution-able American response!! Like Jesus Christ y’all ought to be ashamed of yourselves.Really! Im only 25 years old, but to see how many of you have seemingly forgotten history (if y’all ever knew it at all), thrown logic and reason out the window, tied your personal emotions directly into your ‘solutions’/more-so based them off of, and undoubtedly have an absolute lack of understanding and knowledge of psychology, sociology, legality, civil duty, and shoot even biology!… its actually quite contradictory. Why? Because the same reason you’re wanting to ban porn, to ‘protect’ people from wasting their minds/time, it truly seems y’all have failed to have any comprehension on all of what I had said, all while living in the nation with the most freedom, opportunity, possible accessible education means. Yet YALL still fail to remember what happened not even 100 years ago with your grandparents, prohibition.
To be frank, yall are extremely foolish to believe this would ever work as a solution, that it would be a good solution, that it would improve quality of peoples lives, and that its possible or would make anything better at all. None of yall even slightly got NEAR touching the root of the problem even! As if it was porn, HA! yall must be so blind. Look around…. people are lonely, isolated, mental health and sense of connection are lower than they’ve ever been. Start with THAT okay? You wanna make masturbation illegal too? What’s next? Banning boobs? Yall fail to realize problems are a product of a subsequent series of events and factors, which are far more important to the solution than the problem itself. As if you have bees you are trying to get rid of, you dont just get rid of their honey, as it is merely a product of their being. You want to stop crime? Send the criminals to priso- oh… wait yeah… look how well thats worked. Hmm, maybe because you know.. nobody wants to address the actual reasons why people commit crimes in the first place: a subseuqent series of events imposed upon them such as lack of opportunity, lack of connections help achieve their goals, and dun dun dunnnn: YES: the labeling and stigmatization of labeling it bad and them as criminals only reinforces the whole problem we are trying to stop. Just as every single one of you are doing on this page.
I would argue all of you are potentially, actually, no, ACTIVELY just as or more harmful as what you’re trying to fight due to your passive and active negligence and ignorance, and lack of understanding the full picture. Not to even mention to subsequent effects banning ANYTHING has….
You lack wisdom and depth of common sense.
Your article is alright but would you mind not focusing on it being a crime against women or children? Males in gay pornography are affected just as much id say even more in fact as it seems to be more violent and degrading in nature. Unless you are implying that women are more vulnerable to sexual violence or less capable of making choices they don’t regret later on in life.
Pornography is a parasite of the soul.
I agree with you
I agree with you